Why I love my anxiety and depression (and my kids’ too)
I used to hate it and fight it and wish it was gone, never to be seen again.
I used to hate it and fight it and wish it was gone, never to be seen again.
“Why is my kid so different, so afraid, such a whimp? What’s wrong with them?
I learned that my annoyance would show on my face and instantly make things worse.
My family had a dance party (my favorite!), but I didn’t let myself really get into it. We played ping pong but I was only partly there. I was expecting someone at the door and just keep listening. I don’t usually resist and avoid things like this.
How do you still enjoy a busy holiday when there is a lot going on?
Wishing for anxiety to not exist and hating it is fighting it and actually increases it. The solution is to make friends with anxiety and welcome it.
I told him I didn’t WANT to go the store because I felt guilty that he was doing it and not me.
Do you struggle to understand what is going on in your Anxious body and mind? And how to explain it to your child or teen?
Learning to manage and process and share your own emotions can help you humbly communicate about these things with your kids and then they can start to do the same.
What if bedtime becomes the time they actually want to talk with you and not their friends?